Thursday, July 5, 2012

" being show cased in a hospital bed "



As I knocked on his door and entered in his room, I found him all dressed up, I complemented him on his attire. He smiled and said, may I help you.

He was suffering from memory issues, and since the passing away of his wife he was more lost. He was mostly living in the past. I have learned that people fall to their roots when they are in stress, or when experiencing physical or mental loss. Our true core comes out whether being naughty or nice, profane or kind, in words or deeds.

He was a salesman who sold merchandise, that’s what he did. I saw him at his best when it was least expected.

To some, hospital rooms and beds are show cases of patients on display. During our morning rounds we circle around them to discuss their care amongst ourselves and with them. Being a patient is being vulnerable, putting out oneself to be cared for by so many strangers.

Others know that they are the ones who are also on display to show what they have in them; care and share as they walk by seeing patients bed by bed, room by room lying in hospitals all over. They are the ones who make human show casing dignified with their respect of patients, knowing the importance of what will remain and what will be lost over time in the sacred doctor-patient encounters.

5 comments:

sneha christall said...

yes,the strangers that go that extra mile to take care of them....

Jean said...

So thoughtful. Thank you. Your insight always warms my heart and stimulates my brain. Your post tells what the best doctors have instinctively.

tariqmian said...

Daanish, the poor patients including the gariatric ones who suffer from memory issues and psychosis in addition to med sickness deserve more sympathetic care of course.
You being a doctor are doing a great sevice to the suffering folks.

Shazia said...

I am amazed at the emotions a doctor could actually hold within...I always thought they were tough and numb at heart.

Jean said...

reread your post. Find so much to ponder. Best to you always, Jean.